《别害怕吵架》内容简介
为什么孩子们的争吵会让大人感到困扰？吵架真的是一件丢脸的事情吗？儿童怎样看待与同伴的争吵？吵架对他们来说意味着什么？……意大利教育家丹尼尔·诺瓦拉认为，不敢直面冲突、害怕吵架的孩子，容易养成“冲突缺陷”性格，具体表现为面对社交矛盾，无法表达观点、情绪调节能力弱、过渡敏感脆弱……如何帮助孩子在冲突中学会正向沟通，家长的态度和引导方式至关重要。本书中，作者分析了近100个儿童冲突场景和父母调解案例，依据40多项前沿科学理论，提出“好好吵架法”，及其具体操作步骤、场景应用，切实帮助父母正确应对儿童争吵问题，帮助孩子培养独立解决社交问题的信心和能力，在冲突中“吵”出沟通力、问题解决力、社交力、自信力！
作者简介
丹尼尔·诺瓦拉
意大利颇具影响力的教育专家和作家之一。1989年创立了心理和平与冲突管理中心。自2004年起，任教于米兰天主教大学跨文化教育学系。丹尼尔·诺瓦拉致力于研究儿童发生冲突背后的社会问题、家庭原因及儿童自身心理机制，帮助父母走出传统观念，树立正确的育儿观及方法。
Don't Be Afraid to Fight
Why do children's fights bother adults? Is it really a shame to quarrel? How do children view arguments with peers? What does the fight mean to them? ... Italian educator Daniel Novara believes that children who do not dare to face conflict and are afraid of fighting are prone to develop a "conflict defect" character, which is specifically manifested in the face of social contradictions, inability to express views, weak emotional regulation ability, and excessive sensitivity and vulnerability. How to help children learn positive communication in the conflict, parents' attitude and guidance are crucial. In this book, the author analyzed nearly 100 child conflict scenarios and parental mediation cases, and based on more than 40 cutting-edge scientific theories, proposed the "Good argument method", as well as its specific operation steps and scenario application, to effectively help parents correctly cope with children's arguments, and help children develop confidence and ability to independently solve social problems. In the conflict "quarrel" out of communication, problem solving, social power, confidence!
About the author
Daniel Novara
One of Italy's most influential education experts and writers. The Centre for Psychological Peace and Conflict Management was created in 1989. Since 2004, he has taught at the Faculty of Intercultural Education at the Catholic University of Milan. Daniel Novara is committed to studying the social problems behind children's conflicts, family reasons and children's own psychological mechanisms to help parents out of traditional concepts and establish correct parenting views and methods.
